Broken Marriages In Pakistan, Whose Responsible?

sorry but i wana say.divorce itself a bad word stop discussing this.

Main zyada tu ni janta par jo kuch dekha ao suna hai os se tu lagta hai ke zyada female hai

Zahra N said:

in my opinion its coz of or ignorance of ISLAM n following the west n western culture

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i agree with u

pir b agr koi dekhna chata ho to *Bahishti zewar* ke hisa no 4 main dekh le

Shadi totnay kay bohut sarey wajohat hain,
1. Family system ka khatam hojana (bari waja)
2. Bad Impact of Media and foreign culture
3. mobile phone (Bari Waja)
4. Internet
5. School and colleges ka environment jahan sey tarbiyat ki ibtida hoti ha
6. family problems: her family ma koch aisay log hotay hain ju is koshish ma rehtay hain dosron ki zindagion ko disturb karain.
7. larkay ki behnain ju bhabi ko sakoon sey jeenay nahi daiti or larki ki mother and sisters ki tarf sey be ja mudakhlat
8. understanding kami, duniya ka her insan dosry sey jistara shakal o surat k lihaz mukhtalif ha osi tarah sochnay ka andaz or mizak k lehaz se bi mukhtalif hota ha, bas aik dosry kay mizaj k sath compromise karna parta ha. understanding ka lafz kehnay ma bohut chota sa ha magr understanding bohut bari cheez ha, kesi ko samaj kar oskay sath osi tara rehna koi mamoli baat nahi ha.
koch wajohat dosry sathi bi bayan ker chukay hain

Probably Parents and little bit about Childs

Isn't

there are many problems for broken marriages .. but i think parents and siblings also responsible for broken marriages and may due to child problems .. and i want to convey message please stop child abuse

lack of respect， understanding and deep feeling of islam spirit

@Bewafa duniya sari Even today the primary standard for bride’s search is beauty rather than her education and other traits..... The result is a huge communication gap between the husband and wife after marriage due to which men like to spend time outside home.... On the other hand, women complain of being ignored by their husbands because of the same communication gap..... In cases where people want an educated bride, mostly it is also merely to showcase her degree as a trophy in the drawing room..... Well, that trophy becomes gold medal if the bride is a “doctarni” who can make gol rotis and do not want to pursue her career....