For All Lovers(A MSG)

dear SV awsom believe medear mujhe ye smjh nhn aati k aakhir hum apney Deen Islaam say chahtey kya hein?? jahan hamara Dil chahta hai apni marzi ki ammendment ker leitey hein sirf aapni aasani k lyeIslaam too aik Modern Deen hai ;iss mein orr pata nhn konsi Moderinization karnaa chahtey hein ;ajj kal key Naam nehad Scholars & socalled Muslims;humarey haan bhi too Musharaf age mein kuch aisa hee Roshan khayal Islam paish kya gaya thaa

Siso Ek bacha hota hai uski base barii Eham hoti hai ..Wo ager teak sey banaii jaye tou wo he bara ho ker Noujawan banta hai..Aur Ek Rooh-e-Rawaan ..Lekin Uski Base 3 chizein milker banatii hein..Ek Terbiyet ( Maa ki goud), Dussra Usstad(Maktab), aur 3rd hai Uskii Company( Mahoul, Surroundings) yeh Company mein sub atey hein....App ager bunyaadii Eentt he tay're'hee rakh dou ..Aur Maa'Maari beh'rah'rawii tou Uss Emaarat sey app kitnii dair tak khara rehny ki umeed laga saktey ho?

tou sub sey pehlay apne gahr sey shaoor dena hai..phir baher sey tou polishing hoti hai insan ki ..wo ya tou niikhar jaye ga ya bigger...aur ek baat jab university level per ek banda jata hai tou huamrey iss mashriqii society mein wahan Co'Education kiuyn rakha jata hai..iss liye keh unn sey tawaqouu rakhii jaati hai app iss stage per aa chukey ho jssko maturity boltey hein..aachey burey ka farq aachi trha jaan chukey hotey ho..per iss stage per bhi Aaj kal daikho tou be'raah rawii ka sub sey bara gharr/khadda ban chuka hai ..aachey khassey , sober , ba'sha'oor log itni cheapoo herkatein kerty anzr aaein gey ..ab kia tazkara kerna..hum inko parhey likhey jahil boltey hein..Heaven knows me not pretending dat em da better thn anyone..but yeh ho raha hai ...dating peh jatey hein..cafeteria mein daikho...larka hai tou mehnga sa brand ..cigrate ka...cell ph ka ..apni car ka dressing ka show off ker raha hota hai ...koii kurri impress ho jaye ...nah keh yeh keh main 2 lafz seekh ker bandey ka puttar yahan ban'ney aaya houn..bibiiyaan hein tou wo jahan thora well off larka daikha ..apni tehzeeb tak mein rakhtii nazr aaein gii...jahan dou meeetahey bol bolo yeh lagii gaiinn bus..aur aachey Islamii Ghar ki kurii ko hum ney puthaa seedha kerty daikha hai..ghar waley bhi unjaan hotey hein uss key kiss'bounn sey ..phir yehi larka , larki log table..teh desk wajja wajja keh apney amma abba kii marzi sii ..majboriyaan suna ker kissi dussrey keh sath ..uss ko pata v nahinn hona keh past mein kiya kiya gul khil chukey..haasti gaati zindagii guzartey nazr aaien gey...pata nahin zameer bhi mala'matt nahinn kerta..kaisey aisi life guzartey hein...issii liye Islam ney jo Teaching dii hein we have to follow them..as much as possible..as we can ...jab Ek banda hai mil jana hai...halaal tareeqa Akhatyyar karo ..deen bhi reh jaye ..Duniya bhi ..tou buht sii ghaltiyaan humarii apni hein..every things that comes 4m other cultures..religions makes us dazzles...

yeh seekh .sh'aoor ki rooh phookna..mazhubii, tehzeebii, mulkii...hubulwatnii....yeh huamre ghar, huamrey ma'shray, humare taleemii iddaroun /institutes ki sub sey pehli pirority hona chahyie...

(koii baat burii lagy kissi ko..ya kissi bhi kism kii dil'azarii tou tah-e-dil sey advance sorry...)

dear v.v niceburi lagne wali koi baat nhn hai;orr mara khayal hai kisi koo lagni bhi nhn chaheyeyee woo haqeeqtein hein jinn say hum nazrein churatey hein;ajj joo weaknesses hamein nazar aa rahii hein wo sub keyn hwein iskey boht say reasons hai ;maa ki apni tarbiat nhn hai too wo bache ki kya tarbiat karey gii;too bunyad gult parr gai naa;agar society koo achi maa'ein milen gi too hee aik achi Nassal wajud mein aa sakey giinhn too woo shair hum pay suit karta haiUtha kar phaink doo bahir gali mein nai Tahzeeb kay aandey hein gandey

boht shukria stranger pasand karne kakush rahye

thanx 4 understanding...Allah Pak Ajr-e-Azeem sey nawazein...aur her parhney waley ko hadayet ki taufeeq bakhshein..AmeeN

App ney jo sh'er quote kiyya hai ..bilkul teak hai ..aacha ek Ph.D Scholar tha..uss ney mere ek Islamic perspective keh subject mein ek dinn lecture mein yeh sh'er parha tha...aur lecture ko thora sa mukhtaaser sa conclusion jo unhoun ney diyya tha..wo yeh keh aachey burey dono pehlu sey insan ko guzarna chahyie..buraii keh beech reh ker..bhi wo ager sabit qadam reh jata hai ..main usko samjhta houn keh wo sahii maanii mein merd-e-mominn..aur banda hai ...

aacha unki baat ko main after lecture sochti rahii ..wo just ek din ka lecture tha unka sir out of city thae..so he took da class...keh baat unki teak hai ..per sawaal yeh demagh mein abhii bhi ghoomtey hein ..keh ek gandii machlii saray jal ko ganda ker deti hai ..ek ganda aanda sarey aandey/egg spoil..ker deta hai phir yeh sayings kiuyn humein suna'aye aur samjha'aye jatey hein ...iss baat ko youn samjhyie ga jessay ek larkii ..ya girls group hai ..unka doing aacha nah ho..tehzeebii -o-Akhlaaqii lehaaz sey ..ab main kia houn merii haqeeqat kia hai sirf main jaan sakti houn Allah Pak ki zaat ..ya mere qareebii buht samjh sakty houn gey mujhe wat im..yehi baat uss group ya larki ko lay ker app keh sakty hein ..per unka jo reputation hai wo buht maani rakhta hai yahan ..ab main unkey sath kissi jagah kharrii daikhii jaoun..tou koii baher ka ..aziz rishtey daar ...wo nahin janta ap kaise hein ..wo apko unkey sath daikh ker ..kuch bhi soch sakta hai ..matlab nikaal ...tou phir yahan riskii honey ki zarorat kia hai ?? app ..app nahin hotey her jagah ..ek khandan ..ek background ko present ker rahy hote ho..unkii naik naamii saarii mintoun mein zaleel ho ker reh jaye gii ..beshak app kitney paak baaz ho ya ..shareef ...tou aksser log boltey dikhein gey je buraey dost keh sath reh ker hum aache hein apne track per hein ..zarori hai keh buraai mein haath dalo ..bus ab ko aacha bura pehluu pata hona chahyie ..keh app behtr ker sako khud ko ..aur sarat-e-mustaqeem ka chu'naao bhi ..issi trha co.education hai ager ..ya jahan males n females dealing app limits rakhyie ..thora fasilaa rakyie...wo lines mat cross keryie jo humarii tehzeebii, akhlaaqii, aur mazhubii hein ..yeh best hota hai ..ab aksser ghair zarorri sa mazakraat hota dikhta hai ..in study places..in jobs ..in any field of life ..itna freely wo lagy hotey hein ...ab kissi male keh sath main kharii houn kissi public place per tou hee haa .hoo hoo..( loudly gupshup kerti..befazool sii..ghair zarorii..qehqahey maartii ....).lagii houn main ager ..guzarney wala kia jaaney keh uss sey mera taluq kia hai ..tou main kiuyn mouqaa doun kissi ko unglii uthaney ka ..tazkaray kerny ka ..tou yeh ijtenaab tou hum ker he sakty hein ..khass ker females ...wo Alag baat hai la'sha'oorii tour per..ya kismet ki likhii ki wajah sey app kissi buraii mein phass jao ...tou yahan app ager apni isslah ker lo ..tou iss mrin koii mouzayaqaa nahin ..keh app na waqif thae..per jaantey boojhtey limits cross kerna koii insanyet nahin na danishmandi..na mazhub sey apney aqeedey sey apney Khaliq sey emandaari ..een keh aapney app sey

ab wo teacher ki yeh wording thii..jo humare regular sir thae ..30,40 saal ka wo tajurbey kaar shakhs tha..jaanii maanii hassti hai pu kii ..unkii kia khass baat ..humare walid ki stage per wo shakhs khara tha uss waqt ..tou wo humein baeti keh ker mukhatib kerty thae..aur iss trha apna app rakha tha ..keh buraii kii bhi aankh shermaye..aur app respect khud ba khud deny lag jao ..wo jo girls sir k pass thora khara hottin tou wo bary tareeqey sey samjhtey thae ..beta ..in lectures bhi..keh beta houn main opposite gender he..mujh se bhi app thora faasilaa rakh ker khary ho ker baat kiyya karein plz ...barii hayya daar baetiyaan hein app ...Allah Pak apki izet -o-aabruu ko mehfooz rakhy..app ney he apni izet kerwana hai ...

tou yeh chizein hein jo experience banti hein ..guidelines bhi ..ya roshnii keh lo ...

sorry 4 long respond

dear i m 200% agree 2 ulong respnd ki koi baat nhn dear ye wali aadat aapki mjh say milti hai ; dnt wori i read ur post V keenly;dear Allah ne insan ko Ashraful Makhlukat issi lye bannaya hai;k uss mein theek orr gult ko samjhne salaheyat hoti hai;ye na hoo too uss mein orr janwar mein koi faraq nhn hota;dear Insaan kay andar joo insaan majud hota hai;wo usko hr achay kaam orr bure kaam k bare mein musalsal Ba'khaber kar raha hota hai;ye nhn hai k insaan ko pata na k kya gult hai orr kya thek;hamara zameer bar bar hamein warn karta hai;lakin hum jaan bojh kar anjaan ban jate hein ;or aik hee baat hamare zehan mein hoti hai;joo ho oga daikha jae gaa ajj too jee luun ajj kii masti meinwo kehte hain na k soye hway ko jagana aasan hailakin joo jaag raha hoo usay kaisay jagaya jaye????

je bilkul agreed upon..yeh long resond jo hai na ..iss peh mujhe kaffi criticize kiyya jata rehta hai aksser..he he ..but dats not worries me ..app baat khatam kerny ko ..nice sharing bhi keh sakty ho..ya like peh click..but healthy discussion ..app ko bhi buht kuch dey ker jata hai ..aur her learnr ko bhi ..jo raah-e-hadayet ki justujuu keh jazbey sey sershaar houn ..bus itnii si gal hai siso ..but phir bhi zara respond lamba ho janda hai ...kia karein control nahin hunda

jazaka'Allah khair 4 all ur contribution ...

khush rahyie/ameen

i agree;Jitney bhi lafz hein woo sub meihakhtay Gulaab heinlehjey kay zorr say tu inh'ein Talwaar matt banna