Love At First Sight : Real Love Or Infatuation?

Asalaam O Alaikum frndz...

How are you all?...
Well I really hope and pray your all happy and healthy...
This topic may sound weird, but i'm very confused about these phrases
"love is blind" and "love@ first site" I have a question, if love is blind ...
then how can there be love at first sight? and to go on, if there is such a thing
as love at first sight, would that be love or infatuation?...and plz dont just say
nice thread etc, give me some replies like answer my questions

Wa/Salaam..
I'm fine thanx, how about you?
well firstly i want to say something according to deen.."In Islam, it is not a sin if you feel a special affinity or inclination towards a certain individual since human beings have no control on such natural inclinations. We are, however, definitely responsible and accountable if we get carried away by such feelings and take specific actions or steps that might be deemed as haram (forbidden)..
This thing about love at first sight, well imagine, you see someone in the street, you think they are the most attractive person, their eyes catch yours, you have a moment of starring at one another, you look at this person so intently and that moment you just shared feels like it was hours, this is what some people call love at first sight, and what I refer to as utter rubbish... So many times we hear from friends, family, colegues that they believe in love at first sight, but really we need to question what love is because if catching a person’s gaze, and looking longingly into their eyes is love, well I have had more loves than I first thought. Loving someone is a process that doesn’t just happen in that one moment, that spark is an attraction, it’s a want, I would even say a desire, but can we really say love?...
Love at first sight is not really love. It's an instantaneous physical attraction that's strong enough to make both people blind to everything else (such as the other person's stupidity, poor grammar, bad manners, and so forth)....I hope i have made sense...

personality always wins when compared to a cute face if you can't talk to the person and enjoy there company whats the point a cute face may give initial interest if theres else whats the point !

"Love is blind" is just a figurative matter... the quote is seen in several Shakespeare plays. It kind of represents that feelings of love can/may surpress the activity of areas in your brain that control critical thought.

So basically love doesn't make someone physically blind, but when people are in love, they don't really see the world around them... they just see their love in front of them.

As for "love at first sight" it is what it says.

pyar viyar kuj v naee honda sub dhoka ay...meri gall mann lavo...... zarorat pori krn da naam ay hor kuj v naee..... ALLAH di zaat naal pyar sacha... baki sub jhoot. ...

those phrases are two different things. no one can fall inlove in first sight its just stupid cuz you should know how a persnon is from insidwe!!!!!!!!!...Love at first sight, means that you basically have lust towards the person. Whereas love is blind can mean that because you have love towards your partner, you do not see their deficiencies, their faults, their abusive traits, etc. You just love this person and anything they do is right and forgiven in your eyes because love blinds you from everything else.

Nice question.

I don't believe in love. True love insan siraf apnay se karta ha.

there is no such thing as real love...but however if it does exist, True love doesn't mean only good looks but also thw whole personality of the individual

Not true
"True love insan siraf apnay se karta ha" this is know as self-obsession

"ALLAH di zaat naal pyar sacha" very true, no doubt about this ... magar hum to Allah se piyar he nai krty bcoz jis se piyaar kiya jata hai us ke hr baat maani jati hai.
Hum iqrar zaroor krty hain but hamary qirdaar se bilkul zahir nai hoota ka hum Allah se piyaar krty hain

Love does exists
"Love is blind" is just a figure of speech ... this will be experienced in jannat, jab Allah ka deedaaar hoo ga ... I have heard k people wont blink their eyes for thousands of years ....

"Love at first sight" ... quoting from Heer's post, which says something about being in love with mother since I opened my eyes (I dont remember in which post I read this)

True love is blind to the present condition of its recipient but shows a very strong optimism that by some kind of divine intervention, their lover will undergo some transformation and gradually become the ideal image in your mind's eye.
Love at first sight exists simply because many of us have been through it before.