Pasand ki Shadi | Islam kia kehta hai ic bary mein?

AOA dear ma bohat preshan hon ma jis lrky sa shadi karna chahti hun apny father ko uska btaya ha manany ki koshish b kar rhe hu lakin nhi wo razi go rahy ma unko dukhi b nhi dakh skti na unki izat khrb kr skti hu ma na bht koshish ki icko apna naseeb man k larky sa rabta khtm kr don lakin ya be nahi kar pati kuch samaj nhi ata kia karn larka b mja bht psnd krta ha uski puri family razi ha 7 sal sa hmara relation h. Mara papa ka kahna ha tum masters ho lrka 12 para h km para likha h. 2ra cast achi nahi ha. Bs wo in 2 baton par ic rishty ko daikhna tak ko tayar nahi. Please mja btayn hmara deen kia khta ha ic bary ma.

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Laraib SK25

Walaikum SAlaam ... AGr Ap bAat Religion ki krein to bht c cheezein count HOti hai but agr Ap waisay suggestion mang rhi to i suggest u k ap apni walidah ya kisi relative (aisa shaks jo ap k father ko convince kar saky) ko ready krein woh ap k father se baat krein. n Estakhara kr lein sath mein. Allah ap ka rasta asaan kr dein gy Insha Allah

Ap istikhara kr len. And us k bad Allah pe chor den.
Yad rkhain ap ki shadi k liye ap k Walid ki razamandi bht zruri hai. Aik larki ka nikah usi surat me ho skta hai jb us k Walid ijazat den(agr wo hayat na hn to phir jo koi wali ho us larki ka) .
Han albata @Ana Zai ki bat theek hai k jo koi ap k father ko convince kr sky.

Allah Pak ap k liye Asaanian paida kren aur ap k dil ko mutmain kr den.

@laraib SK25 wa alaikum asslam... behna hum jis society me reh rahe hain wahan ye love affairs ko acha ni smjha jata agr larki aisa bold step le to wo uska na kabil e maafi jurm bn jata ha... dosri trf hmare deen me shadi hi jayez relation ha aise kisi relation ka taluk ni. Aur shadi pe bhi larki ki raza mandi lena zarori ha hmare han lrki ko btaya jata raye ni li jati .. lekin iska mtlb ye ni k kisi aise relation ko create kia jaye jantay boojhtay bhi. Phr larki apne walden k samne kese ser utha skti ha is bare me? Apk parents ab ego & cast ka msla bna rahe hain .. ap istikhara kr k dekhen phr jo bhi ishara mila use kabool kren..

baat taleem ya cast ki nahin hai...relationship me emotional bonding, mental compatibility matter kerti hai.... agar pyar hai in both sides want to marry just tell your parents that you are emotionally, mentally compatible with him... its better to talk in time otherwise you will destroy three main lives and all other new person later to come(children)..... always marry with the person whom your heart feels like home.... if you love someone get courage to say it otherwise it will suffer many people... education, status, language, cast, color, age, etc they are no issue... main thing is emotion & mental connection.... if someone can give you at least basic needs, believe me what Allah has to give you, it will come to you automatically..... parents always cautious about their children but life is long, you have life it..... Any person male/female should choose person whom he/she feel deep emotional bond...... if you don't have emotional bond to you life partner, its gonna be hell neither you can live nor it let you die...

marriages get strength by emotional bonding means your heart ache for each other, you feel like home, whom you need not to guard up against.... no matter where it is love, friendship, marriage, relationships problem make your life a living hell,

Bahan pahli bat to ya ha ka ap 7 saal se ek haram kam ma mubtala hain. Jiska bara ma apko darna chahiya k ap Allah ko jawab kaisa daa pain gi, q k nikkah k ilawa kon sa asa relation ha jo ghair mahramo k darmyan ho sakta ha? Dosri bat ya ha k apka walid ko ab apni izzat ki fikar karni chahiya q k agar ap shaitaan k bahkawa ma aa k u saal tak asi harkat kar sakti hn to ap koi b step laa sakti hn. Baaaki Allah apko Haya atta karay or rastay asan kara jo ap na apna hathon se mushkil kia han apna lia. Sumaameen.