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تم ٹائر بدل لیتی ہو
میرا شوہر تو مجھے
وزنی سامان تک نہیں اٹھانے دیتا
تم ساتھ کھانا بنانے کا کہتی ہو
میرا شوہر آفس سے آ کر
اپنی تھکن بھول کر
میرا ہاتھ بٹاتا ہے
بچوں کی دیکھ بھال کرتا ہے
تم موزہ ڈھونڈنے کا کہتی ہو
میرا شوہر مجھے ڈھونڈتا ہے
تم برابری کا نعرہ لگاتی ہو
میرا شوہر خود سے بڑھ کر
مجھے مان دیتا ہے
خود پرانے لباس میں ہو
مجھے ہر بار نئے جوڑے دیتا ہے
خود سالہا سال ایک جوتے
میں گزار دیتا ہے
مجھے ہر بار نئے جوتے دیتا
ّود سستے کپڑے لے کر
مجھے برانڈڈ دلواتا ہے
تمہیں حق کے لیےباہر آنا پڑا
میرا شوہر مجھے خود سے
سارے حق دیتا ہے
روز آفس سے کال کر
مجھ سے پوچھتا ہے
آج کیا لانا ہے
گویا میری رائے ہی
سب باتوں پر مقدم ہے
میری چاہت ہی اعظم ہے
تم اپنا بتاؤ
کیا ہے کوئی جو تم سے کہے
چھوڑ دو یہ میں کرتا ہوں
وزنی ہے یہ نہ تم اٹھاؤ
اسے میں اٹھاتا ہوں
ارے نہیں نہیں
تمہاری قسمت ایسی کہاں
تم تو دوسروں کی
عیاشی کا سامان ہو
گھر سے اپنے فرار ہو
تم تو ٹائر بدلتی ہو
تمہیں تو بے طریقہ
بیٹھنے کا حق چاہیے
سنو
مییرا شوہر میرا ایمان ہے
دھوپ میں سائبان ہے
میرے لیے تحفۂ رحمان ہے
میں اسے کھانا بھی دونگی
موزے بھی ڈھونڈوں گی
اس کے پسینے کی بو سے
مجھے جنت کی خوشبو آتی ہے
تم خود تو برباد ہو
دوسروں کی بربادی کا سامان ہو
تم پہلے میری برابری تو کر لو
پھر کسی سے برابری کا دعویٰ کرنا

 

Actually in European society men are taking the benefit of this liberty (of women). Very first I think this idea of women equality came into lethargic men who did not want to do anything, so they made the women fool with this idea of liberty. Now, in Europe/America, you will see women doing all the work (from earning to spending), and men rests (in most of the cases). Even they have reached so far that men run away after making the women "mothers" I have seen here (in USA) young mothers taking care of their child/ren, and no men (husbands) are there to help them.

Women asked the liberty so they got the freedom in all aspects, and now forced to do all "labor".

The need is/was only to understand thoroughly what place has been assigned by our creator (Allah) for each of man and woman, and stick to it firmly, then the sound society was guaranteed. Freedom for woman is within getting education, learn how to raise the children free all other burden, not living without any bondage (especially from those given by the God), This freedom of women now has been so commercialised that you can see in beauty contest, (to sell cosmetic products), there are similar others.

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@Sibgha Ahmad
Nice thread But i just want to say 1 thing that it is not TRUE its the dream of writer who wrote it..
If a woman is independent then its the best thing That the main pillar of a house a society a country and a Nation is STRONG because If she is fearless strong independent then her offspring will have the same qualities... and a Woman that was risen by our Prophet Hazrat Muhammad Sallala ho alihay wasalam was a strong lady who was able to trade who was able to fight in the battles who was so strong that she could do anything for her survival... and She was so strong that Hazrat Muhammad Sallala Ho alihay wasalam asked to learn Half of Deen(most part of islam) from Hazrat Ayesha Razi Allah Anha ... the woman of that Era was at her pinnacle for Her Strength.
there was a formula in chemistry i read i.e "actual yield is always less than theoretical Yield" this poem is the theory A hypothesis of an Ideal Husband wife relation but thats not ACTUAL..
The Pain which a woman bears is when she becomes a mother that pain is the face of death and every woman wishes to bear this pain to become a mother if she can do that then whats the point to change the tire of car... its nothing in front of a woman's Courage..
its like a fairy tale that man suffers for his wife... and wife saying k paseenay ki smell is like jannat ki khushboo... A big crap... Woman is not Fragile she is powerful like an iron Lady and thats the Real truth that she does everything she can do anything she can even move hills when it comes for her Family... my words are bit harsh but thats the reality..
 
@Asad Rehman

i didnt find it speechless...
and what about the liberals men... what they are doing???
and try to look it agian did u see any relation like that its only 1 person in 1000s that would be like that...
be realistic and its faaaaaaaaaar beyond the reality

no1 will agree with me but these are the facts
 
@Mishaikh
and what about asian society
what they are doing??
u know that???
what they are doing they dont believe in man woman equality but a woman is doing everything for her husband who only know that this woman is equal to his shoes she has to do everything in her own home and others as well
do u know that maids the servants in asian society>>?? do u know their husbands role??
i will tell u they take hash opium and sleep all the day long and their wives are earning for that addicted husband his children and family and when she comes back then she gets the reward from her Husband which is called Physical Torture and harassment
this is the reality of asian society..that men rest women earn this is just 1 glance of brutality specifically in asia.. im not saying it does not happen in other parts of world
u know what is the domestic labor? u even cant imagine about that...

and u know what is assigned to a woman from the Creator (ALLAH)
u simply don't know
She is assigned to be Strong Fearless and a Dignified character that is so powerful that she can Mould she can modify the society Thats why she is bestowed to be the Mother of Prophets and the great leaders it is SHe...It is the Woman who is to modify and build the strong house then Nations...
A strong Mother Stronger Kids... Strongest Nation...

i know most of you will not agree with me but i just couldn't stop myself
 
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