Broken Marriages In Pakistan, Whose Responsible?

[Neha]

I think people just don’t understand that thing called love....when you r in love you can do anything in love. These days people think if you like someone's more than 3 qualities it must be love & should be spend ur whole life wid him/her....& people get married, after sometimes they realize these 2 or 3 things r not enough & suddenly they said, o my god what we have done....becoz there is no love so they can't tolerate each other & life became a nightmare....ended on divorce...

 

[Afshan Tariq]

TV dramas

Agreed a major cause is also TV dramas.

 

[Afshan Tariq]

koi shadi kabi b nai totay gi agar 3 factors hn gay mery khyal say .. give some space to each other , trust each other n finally respect each other .. ye hain to sab hain to kuch b kabi galat nai ho ga

Absolutely right, where is a will there is a way

 

[Afshan Tariq]

Tolerance and accepting each other's prose and corns whole heartedly also can be solution of this problem.

 

[BoOr]

Love and Believe to you partner.

 

[samram]

well!all the messages are right but one thing is mainly our PARENTS;
Hamaray parents ki problem yea ha ka wo apnay bachon ko 21century ky bachon ki tarhan grornup kartay han but jaab baat shadi ki atti ha to around 95% chahatay han ky jahan hum chahtay han wahan shadi karain,hum ny jo socha ha wo sahi ha,they completely forgot the fact that there child is the one who live with other person not them!!!!
They just remember one thing that"shuray main tu saab ki life mushkil hoti." but thz iz not 19 or 20 century abb assa nahin hota

 

[BoOr]

both Husband and Wife are the responsible.

 

[Haya Aslam]

Just bcz of not following the Shariah n Sunah(sunnat)

 

[Muslim]

bcoz expectations exceed in this relation.

point is ri8 that expectation level is higher...but the figures state that most of the divorced are taken by girlz...n most of them was luv marriages ...so we shud not blame 1 gender..both are equally responsible..

 

[Muslim]

Indirectly...The storm of technology on the one hand has eased our life but it has also changed our life styles, T.V, Mobiles, Computers are real bone of contentions..actually by these mediums a lobby has been able to deteriorate our personality..The more we are attracted toward it, the more we are losing control on our life. simply saying "they have made us handicapped"
we can't move without car
we can't sleep without A.C
we can't survive without computer or mobile

we have no control on our life..it's a puppet life...dreaming all the time.

directly...the storm has hit our morality, dignity, level of respect, loyalty, thinking power, expectation level, social customs, mental approaches, physical approaches, unity, religion, spirit, power and many many more... causing some harsh and embarrassing results, divorce is one of them.