Kya Zahanat Aurat ki Dushman hai?

[Veer]

Pakistani actress Noor ki 4th marriage divorce per khatam ho rahi ha. bohat afsos hua. hamari un ke liye best wishes hen aur dua ha ke ye rishta khatam na ho aur apas ke ikhtelaf khatam ho jayen. ameen

is tweet per logon ka mila jula reaction dekh rha tha kuch logon ne bohat buray comments bhi diye jinhen dekh kr dukh bhi hua. waheen is image per nazar pari, socha ap ke sath share karoon.

Ap kya sochte hen is bary mein?

 

[doctorabidasajid]

@Veer interesting topic for discussion especially for females

Well I don't agree Kay zahanat orat ki dushman hay or sirf baywaqof orat hi khush rah sakti hay balkay meray khyal main to zaheen orat bahtar survive kàr sakti hay in terms of relationships.
But I agree Kay orat apñi zahanat ghar main na hi show karay to bahtar hota hay Matlab woh halat ka tajzia beshak karay magar apñi rai foran hi express na karày kionkay yeh aik haqeeqat hay Kay hamaray muashray main mard ko bachpan hi say training di jati hay Kay he is right and he is the dominating one or us Kay lia bardasht karna zara mushkil hota hay agar us ko bar bar yeh ihsas ho kày ghar main koi or us say bahtar faisla kar sakta hay

Now here comes a woman's intelligence .woh apñi bat bhi manwa sakti hay baghair mard ko yeh ehsas dilay Kay you were WRONG laikin fact yeh hay orat ko apñi ego Marni paray gi

Or asal main orat ki dushman us ki ego hay.Aj kal larkyon ko aik bari bimari yeh bhi hay Kay orat or mard barabar hain and then when they got married to bus her bat main un ki MAIN a jati hay .bus yàhin say masla shuru ho jata hay

In my point of view mard ko orat ko respect daini chahiyay or us ki bat suñani chahiyay
Or orat ko yeh zahan main rakhna chahiyay Kay mard superior hay they should respect him and let him take the lead .us ka sath dain us ki madad karain us ka hosla barhain, narmi say mashwara bhi dain laikin dominate karnay ki koshish na karain

Hazrat Ali (RA) ka farmana hay
"Baywaqof orat mard ko apna ghulam banati hay or ghulam ki biwi ban jati hay jabky aqalmand orat apnay shohar ko badshah banati hay or khud badshah ki malika ban jati hay."

In the end zaheen honay main kharabi nahi hay .woh kuch or awamil hain Jo relationship ko kamzor kartay hain

@M Shah @Hafsa @Imal @yusra avais @Saad Sheikh @Sajjal @Mahsa @Ajwah @Kool Kat

 

[doctorabidasajid]

@yusra avais @Kool Kat
Especially for both of you

 

[Veer]

Now here comes a woman's intelligence .woh apñi bat bhi manwa sakti hay baghair mard ko yeh ehsas dilay Kay you were WRONG laikin fact yeh hay orat ko apñi ego Marni paray gi

Or asal main orat ki dushman us ki ego hay.Aj kal larkyon ko aik bari bimari yeh bhi hay Kay orat or mard barabar hain and then when they got married to bus her bat main un ki MAIN a jati hay .bus yàhin say masla shuru ho jata hay

In my point of view mard ko orat ko respect daini chahiyay or us ki bat suñani chahiyay
Or orat ko yeh zahan main rakhna chahiyay Kay mard superior hay they should respect him and let him take the lead .us ka sath dain us ki madad karain us ka hosla barhain, narmi say mashwara bhi dain laikin dominate karnay ki koshish na karain

Hazrat Ali (RA) ka farmana hay
"Baywaqof orat mard ko apna ghulam banati hay or ghulam ki biwi ban jati hay jabky aqalmand orat apnay shohar ko badshah banati hay or khud badshah ki malika ban jati hay."

ap ne 100% theek baat ki ha im featuring this thread ta ke ye baat zyada logon tak pohonche. JazakALLAH

 

[Mahsa]

@doctorabidasajid aapi you are right. Main masla he yahi hai aaj kal ki generation ego ko khatam nahi karna cha rahi. Male hai ya female dono jhuknay ko tayar nahi. Aik realtion tabhi mazbooth hota hai jab usme se aik fard jhukna jaanta ho warna rishtay bht kamzor hotay hain aur jald toot jatay hain.

 

[M Shah]

Thought provoking thread !

and @doctorabidasajid ..being a married woman aap hum sub se zyaada jaanti hai so hum sab aap se itefaaq kartai hain aur is cheez ko hamesha yaad rakhaingai thanks for sharring ur thoughts ..

 

[pksf46]

Yeah aik fazool kiasam ke bat hai aap logon k mulk ke or awam ke abhe tak yahi halat hai k aurat or mard ko alag alag tareeqay say daikhty ho. Ager log sirf apnay kam say kam rakhain to aisa kuch b na ho. Aurat bhe insan hoti hain un ka dunya may anay ka maqsad yeah to ni hota k mardon say fermaishain kerin woh b aik proper insan hoti hain ager woh aisa ni kerti or apnay ap ko shadi tak mahdood ker laiti hain to yeah jahalat k ilawa kuch ni.

 

[Precious Pari]

khair intelligence to blame krna ik bilkul hi ghalat bat hai

 

[bobbyoct23]

Aqal to hoti hi aziyat hai chahy aurat me ho ya murd me...... murd ki fitrat hai usy apni malkiyat ki chiz jan se pyari hoti, apni chiz k liay kisi bhi taqat se taqra jata hai chahy wo kitna hi kamzoor q na ho...... yehi chiz uski love life, marriage, her relationship me numayan hoti haai... murd ki *ex life, romantic life intensely intimate ho jati hai isliay relationship with partner become stronger with passage of time... aqaal her bat me logic, calculation, analytic dhondti hai.... relationship me aqal chalana relationship tord deta hai ya phir relationship ki rooh nikal jati hai..... think carefully but never use too much logical or analytical mind..... relationship have ups and down... but feelings create emotion bonding which reignite relationships even they are about to die due to unresolved misunderstanding or separation...

 

[Teponim]

No absolutely not..a woman being smart sharp n intelligent is an asset..she is worth respect and care. .however if in that support she is misusing..or the guy has complexes..issues arise..otherwise no wrong in it