Ladkiyon Ki Shadi May Takheer - Zimay Daar Walidain Ya Muashra?

Syed Anjum Naqvi

Syed Anjum Naqvi

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فورم پر میری دوسری تحریر امید ہے کہ انتظامیہ اور اراکین کی جانب سے حوصلہ افزائی ہو گی اور مذکورہ تحریر پر بحث بھی ہو گی جو کہ راقم کی تمام محنت کا پھل ہو گی شکریہ
 

Very true brother

The solution to all problems is in ISLAM
BUT
some of us
  • don't want to practice it because "hum kisi aur ka bhala hoty howy nai deekh sakty"
  • don't even bother to study it and rely on the teachings which we hear from others or from forwarded sms

Yr, I have an example of my friend (Allah usay hameesha khush rakhhay).
He carried out his nikkah ceremony in such a humble way (even though he is earning more than 2 Lac a month) just to be an example for the rest of the society that "simple can be beautiful"
He did all this as he was determined and was internally very strong.

BUT most of us (including me) are not so strong to take on our family, our society :(
and do nikkah in a simple manner ... aisa nikkah jis main DIKHAWA na ho, beja kharcha na ho

I just cry when I feel myself being helpless before this society.
 
Sane said:
Very true brother

The solution to all problems is in ISLAM
BUT
some of us
  • don't want to practice it because "hum kisi aur ka bhala hoty howy nai deekh sakty"
  • don't even bother to study it and rely on the teachings which we hear from others or from forwarded sms
Yr, I have an example of my friend (Allah usay hameesha khush rakhhay).
He carried out his nikkah ceremony in such a humble way (even though he is earning more than 2 Lac a month) just to be an example for the rest of the society that "simple can be beautiful"
He did all this as he was determined and was internally very strong.

BUT most of us (including me) are not so strong to take on our family, our society :(
and do nikkah in a simple manner ... aisa nikkah jis main DIKHAWA na ho, beja kharcha na ho

I just cry when I feel myself being helpless before this society.
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bilkul sahi kaha Sane ji apnay, actually hum logo mai artificiality aur
dikhawa bohat ziada hai isi waja say agar hum apni chadar dekh kar pao
phalain to bohat say fiaday ho saktay hain..Hum Deen se ziada tradition,
society aur culture ka khyaal rakhtay hein, Islam ki ungli pakerd ke chalna
to hum ne seekha hi nahi aur na hi seekhna chahtay hein...
 
Assalam_O_Alykum!

Masha'Allah n Jazaka'Allah khair
very well written :)

humarii society ka major problem yeh hai hum naam key muslims hein Amaal key nahin ...Allah Pak ney guidelines stright fwly humein Qur'an n Sunnah ki soorat main bakhshii hein, hum Islam n Islamic teaching ka perchaar tou kerty hein per humara life style uss key according hai hii nahin tou behtrii kaisey mumkin ho gi , jab qoul o fail main tazaad rahy ga, jo jis kaam sey manah ker raha hota hai wohi sub sey agay hota hai wo kerny main dhuzz dhuzz ..jhaiz dey ker waldein samjhtey hein baeti khush rahy gii, nah diya tou tanz hii jeeney nahin daein gey, yeh soch hoti hai jhaiz deny kii, aaj kal tou advance dour itna hai log munah sey bol ker demands ker rahy hein, baeti key waldein bhi majboor hein, jis ki haesiyet kam hai wo bhi apni ooqaat sey barh ker deny main sergadaan nazr aata hai keh meri baeti kisi soorat bus jaye aur rukhsat ho paye , saari umer muflis sey waldein ki wo qarz dhoutey hi guzer jati hai , mayyar hum ney zahrii namou-dou-numayish aur maal o doulat bana liya hai..iss main Aam Aadmi ki zindagii zayadah ajeeran n mushkal kerny main aisey logoun ka zayadah haath hai jo show off keh dildadah hein,

regardz
 
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