Meri Aik Adna Si Koshsh! :)

@Hassan Tafakkur ... piary bhai..
yeh natural he.. its nothing wrong to have feelings.. for someone.. and.. hmen koi bura ni lga.. ap insult na feel kren
ap stdy krty hen ya job krty hen.. us pe focus kren..
and..once a teacher said to me.. use your weaknesses as your strengths :)
and.. jo gham zada..tooty huy dil huty hen... un k bary men. Allama Iqbal R.A said..

tera ayena (dil) he woh ayena k khasta (toota hua) hu to azeez tr (ziada acha )he nigah e ayena saaz ( Parwardigaar k nzdek) men.. :)

Allah pak ap ko, aur idr mojod sb logun ko.. khush rakhy..aur mery gunah muaf frmaye...
 
@Ali Akbar brother thanks...
Mujhay pata chal chuka hai k wo girl apnay parents sey ziyada piyar karti thi aur mujh sey kam. Kiyun k jab uss ki shadi uss k parents ne teh kar di to uss ne karwa li.

Larki ne sara ilzam mujhay diya k mai ne Apnay Papa ko baija nahi tha rishta mangnay k liye. Iss liye uss ne shadi karwa li apnay parents ki khushi ki khatir.

. Lekin mai ne to usay court marriage ka bhi kaha tha to wo foran peechay hatt gayi aur darpok larkiyo ki tarah.

Mai boht bad-naseeb tha k apnay parents k baray mai ghalat socha aur un ko dushman samjha.

Wo girl apnay parents ki khushi ki kharir saaray waaday aur iqraar bhool gayi par mai phir bhi apnay Parents se naraz raha.

Mai tamaam boys sey yahi naseehat karoon ga k kabhi bhi apni marzi se relationship na banaya karain. Kam-az-kam parents se permission to li hoti.
 

Ali Akbar said:
well .. @Hafsa aapa.. ne mjy tag kr dia he..

kia kaha jae .. but @Kool Kat .. aap ne bht achi koshish ki he..
baqi..rahi bt muhabbat ki.. to simple c bt he... as aapa said.. hum ghalti se paak nahi..
kia kbhi ksi ne farsihty se bhi muhabbat ki he.?. i mean..jesi hamen dosry insaanun se hu jaati he..

muhabbat aam...be had aam ghaltyon se jury huy logun se hoti he..aur @Kool Kat .. ye phr bhi pakeeza he huti he..
and in words of sir Allama Iqbal R.A .. muhabbat fateh e Aalam.. how..is that..? iss pe bht kuch kaha ja sakta he.. @Kool Kat .. likhti rahen ..
gr to khuwahi k khush navees...
me navees, wa me navees, me navees.....thora sa ghalat hu gya he.. but..means..practice makes you perfect
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Me ne ye nai kha @Ali Akbar k galatian nai hoti hen ya mohabat na pak hai. Me sirf ye khna chah rhi hn k hm sb ne mil kr iski asal shakal barkrar nai rhny di hai.........May bhi me achy c samjha na pai hn q k professional to hn nai mein bhi...So us k liye sb c Really Sorry! :)
 
Imal said:
@Kool Kat Why are you Sorry dear.. Ap ne buht acha n kharaa likha n samjhny walon ne samjha b..Bs her kisi ka apna point of view hota hai wo hum change nahi ker sakty.. Aap bas apni koshish jari rakhain..:)
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Me generally bt kr rhi thi @Imal , un ko jinko lgta hai k me ne galat kha hai ya phir agr koi hurt hua ho to! :)
 
Hassan Tafakkur said:
@Kool Kat sister aap baatain theek hain. Kujhay kafi change feel ho raha hai yahan pe aa k. MashAllah aap log boht helping aur samajhdar ho. @M Shah bhai ne bhi help ki aur @Imal sister ne bhi.

Mujhay ayesa feel ho raha hai jesay meri insult si ho gayi hai sab k samnay. Ayesay lagta hai Sab log mujhay bura samajhtay hain.

Lekin abh mai acha banu ga In Sha Allah.

Mairay andar sab kuch hai tha bas Sabar ki kami thi jis ki wajah se mai ulti seedhi baatain kar k aap logo ko preshan kiya.

Aap sab plz mujhay muaf kar rain.

Aap positive soch rakhnay walay ho aur mai humaisha negative batain krta hoon.

Aap ne phir bhi meray sey acha sulook kiya. Lekin meri Sisters to har waqt larti rehti hain. Meri 6 sisters hain sab mujh se choti hain par meri respect koi bhi nahi karteen. Kiyun k parents meri insult kartay thay to choti behno ne bhi badtameezi krna seekh li. Har waqt badtameeziyan. Lekin aap ne phir bhi izzat di. Thank u!
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Aray nai bhai, aisa mt sochen....apki koi insult nai hui balky hme tokhushi hai k apko ahsas ho gya h aur ap positive side p aa rhy hen!!! Apko koi bhi bura nai smjta yhan! :)

Rhi bt ye k apki sistrs apki izzat nai krtin to ap unko apny salook c ahsaas dilao k ap unk bary bhai ho, unk sath acha slook kro, unk sath time spend kro khud ba khud sb thkho jaye ga....sb c phly ap phla kadam barhao aur un c dosti kro k ap bary ho..........ho skta hai wo bhi isi liye batmeezi krti hn k apko kon c unki parwa hai ya aisa kch! Ap bary ho to apki zimadari zyada bntihai! :)

Allah Pak apko skoon khushian aur hidait dy! :)
 
@Kool Kat thank u sister. Ab to dimagh kafi theek sa ho chuka hai. Mai ab koshish karoon k un se dosti ki. Shaid meri hi ghalti hai.

Abh time doon ga In Sha Allah sab ko.
Abh Mama Papa mujh se piyar karna shuru ho gaye hain.

Time milta nahi na poora hafta to hostel mai guzar jata hai aur weekend pe thakawat ho jati hai.

Lekin mai ne kabhi un ko danta ya mara nahi. ..
 
Hassan Tafakkur said:
@Kool Kat thank u sister. Ab to dimagh kafi theek sa ho chuka hai. Mai ab koshish karoon k un se dosti ki. Shaid meri hi ghalti hai.

Abh time doon ga In Sha Allah sab ko.
Abh Mama Papa mujh se piyar karna shuru ho gaye hain.

Time milta nahi na poora hafta to hostel mai guzar jata hai aur weekend pe thakawat ho jati hai.

Lekin mai ne kabhi un ko danta ya mara nahi. ..
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ye to ap ne bht acha kia hai.....ab wo bht jaldi apki trf loat aain gi! :)
 
@Hassan Tafakkur ..shukriyaa shukriyaa !! :love::love::love:

@Hafsa . @Imal . @Kool Kat . @Ali Akbar ..ne bht khoobsoorat tareeqai se aapko samjhaaya in ki advices par amal karni ki koshish karo ..

baqi jub bhi koe masla ho in chaaro se rujo karna ye hamarai Pakistan.web.pk k behtareen heero mai se qeemti heerai hai ..may ALLAH bless them ..
mai bhi help karunga but u knw wohi tejarti umoor ..zyada waqt sehraaye rasto pai he guzarta hai ..jaha signal naam ki koe koe cheez he nahi hoti ..u knw na oman ,bahrain ,qatar in sub k darmyan sehraaye rastai kitnai taweel hotai hai aksar auqaat to mai 6 maheenai ,ya 1 saal tak Pakistan.web.pk se ghaayab hojaata hun ..:/ apna khayal rakhnaa ..! ALLAh bless u
 
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